This is what No Nation Army was made for. Things that I didn’t have time to discuss in Ambiguous Vindication. Well I don’t want this to go into to much detail because I don’t like grossing people out and stuff. But I just feel like guys should refrain from receiving oral sex as much as they possibly can.
Why, you may be asking. Isn’t this fucker a guy? Well yes I am, but I also can see that from a woman’s point of view it might just be kind of unnecessary. When you hear me out you might understand it all a little better. How many people out there know a guy that has had sex? How many of those guys had an orgasm? Probably all of them, in fact it’s a safe bet. But when it comes to girls it is much harder for them to have one.
All a guy needs is friction, there’s not much else needed for them. We’re built that way, we just have and easier time. Women take time, they have to be treated a certain way, they have to be emotionally prepared and there has to be a level of comfort, sometimes, if there’s not, it might even hurt more than it feels good.
Guys don’t need emotional help to cum, if there’s an erection you can be damn sure that they will get there, with or with out a mouth, or even another person for that matter. It doesn’t take a tender touch, kind words or any of that like it might for women. It takes speed and friction.
Hell there are guys out there who claim to be able to orgasm if they just think about it hard enough, they call it mental masturbation, look that shit up sometime. What ever the reason, men just have an easier time with orgasm.
So why the hell should any woman go out of her way to do something like blow a guy when and give him extra pleasure when chances are, he won’t give her enough in the first place?
I mean if she really wants to, then more power to her, but for a guy to sit there and beg and bitch about not getting it and then when it comes time for him to return the favor you can damn near bet he’ll just bitch about the job she did.
Since I’ve talked about this whole bit, I’ve always said that I would much rather eat a girl out than have her go down on me. I say that because I would feel more pleasured knowing that she was happy and satisfied than giving into my own selfish desires for something I don’t really need help doing. In all honesty if you want to cum with out pleasuring someone that bad go and fucking beat off and stop being a dick about it.
I’m not saying that I’ll never receive a blow job and I’m not saying I’ll go down on every girl I am with, that’s just a skanky move. But what I am saying is that I think a guy would do himself better, do the relationship better, and show some fucking chivalry by going down on her with out being asked to and without asking for anything in return.
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to be perfectly blunt, i plan to suck my boyfriend's cock dry, and if he objects on the grounds that he's being chivalrous, i might get pissed
i think there's an implication in there, whether unintentional or subconscious or just plain direct, that women are inferior, more delicate creatures normally relegated to subservient roles (like pleasuring men) that you're rescuing us from.
and i actually take deep offense at that. if i go down on my boyfriend, he better unzip and like it.
i agree with emily.
girls dont need a gentle tough or some other bullshit to get off, they need a guy who knows what the hell hes doing.
having a healthy sex life is fufilling both partners. that doesnt mean one should hold back something. it should be equal. yes, if i go down on my guy, i will want something in return, but that doesnt mean oral. getting my guy off can get me off, and vise versa.
i love giving head, and i love getting face. but there is a hell of a lot more to a great sex life.
Well I understand that, but its not meant to be in a thing of whether or not you can do it right. I mean that's just one more thing to add to my point. Most guys can't do shit down there on a girl, I hear the girls talk. And many girls have a definite technique when it comes to guys.
Most guys do it just becasuse their forced, how many say that they love going down on their girl?
And in that same respect I will say this, you have to understand that if anything its not like you're holding the girl up like she's delicate.
Its more like you're showing them that you really care about them getting there. A guy doesn't need that blow job to have an orgasm.
And yes if a girl insists and we are seriously dating then she can. But at the same time she can expect even more than back and maybe more. At least until she's satisified.
The above comment was made by my roommate, he's apparently gotten himself a blog know, this is the first I've heard of it. But yeah...
Boy you and emily make a lot of goood points.
"and i actually take deep offense at that. if i go down on my boyfriend, he better unzip and like it".-emily
I take offense to it too.
Emily said...
"and i actually take deep offense at that. if i go down on my boyfriend, he better unzip and like it."
Emily, I love you!
Yeah I'd love to see what happens when some guy tells some girl she should be like that and she knocks his head off. Or bites him.
Well... I'd like to agree. I don't believe it makes a woman inferior to a man if it takes more for her to achieve an orgasm, that doesn't make any sense. Our bodies are built differently, and honestly I think it's true that it's easier for a guy to have an orgasm than it is for me. It IS psychological just as much as it's physical, for me at least... I have to feel good mentally for it to work. So as for giving head, I'm not opposed to it but I am opposed to it as an expectation, especially if the guy isn't getting it right for ME and doesn't care. Any anger or resentment from a man that stems from not getting oral sex, is out of line. Yes, it's true that in a loving relationship the girl should want to please the man and he should want to please her, but neither person should be forced into doing something they aren't comfortable/willing to do. i think overall there's a good point. it's not something that wasn't written to say there's something wrong with women who DO give oral sex, it's more directed towards men who DEMAND it... when it's not exactly necessary. That's not so hard to understand.
I think the only two people who even understood what I was trying to say. It's not like I said anyone woman who gives oral sex is a whore, its not like I said I would only give and not recieve. I simply said that to me the woman deserves and needs it more. On top of that I wouldn't accept it unless she actually wanted to do it. I think only Carly and Autumn got that.
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